Philemon 8-10—Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, yet I appeal to you on the basis of love. I then, as Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ—I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains.
Typically we view leadership as a trait comprised of courage, strong will and that rare ability to see what must be done and inspire people to action. Too often we see those who occupy positions of leadership harness power or vested authority to coerce others into acquiescence. But how often do we hear about leadership from the vantage of love?
Consider God, the ne plus ultra (the ultimate); the Leader of all leaders. In order to free us from the deadly effect of sin so that we could have a viable relationship with Him, He appealed to us on the basis of love. He sacrificed His Son instead of smoking Satan. He made Himself like us to reach us instead of throwing us away and starting all over.
Consider Jesus. If we knew we were spending our last night with our dedicated team before certain death, most of us would summon our most inspirational thoughts and issue directives we consider critical to mission accomplishment. Jesus washed His follower’s feet. He appealed to them on the basis of love.
Consider the Holy Spirit. He speaks with a still small voice when He could so easily split the atoms. He assumes control only if we will listen; interceding for us “with groans that words cannot express” (Romans 8:26b) on the basis of love.
If I want my children to obey me I don’t raise my voice I raise my heart. If they are to embrace what is true and noble they must know what it means to be truly and nobly embraced. I learn this from my Father Who moves me to tears by His most excellent patience, kindness, and gentleness. So often I fall short of His will yet I find His authority sewn with mercy. He inspires me to do what is right from the basis of love.
Inspiration
You do not lead by hitting people over the head—that’s assault, not leadership.—Dwight D. Eisenhower