Proverbs 16:21—The wise in heart are called discerning, and pleasant words promote instruction.
The art of discerning is comprised of two parts—keen insight combined with good judgment. Many believe that discernment is a gift and that certain people are more adept at discerning than others. However, discernment is much more than a gift it is an ability linked closely to wisdom. Therefore, as a person grows wiser spiritually, the ability to discern should also blossom.
The closer we walk with Jesus the better we are able to identify what is good versus what is harmful, what is best versus what is adequate—both in ourselves and for others. Discernment enables us to be like the chess player who sees five moves in advance. In essence, as we rely on the Holy Spirit to lead us in the daily pursuit of serving God, He gives us insight into the five big W’s (who, what, where, when, why). Does this mean we always know what to do or what lies ahead—certainly not! Yet even in the fogbanks of life we are not lost for discernment also consists of faith. Impalpable circumstances should lead us to our knees in pursuit of God’s faultless leading!
Discernment must always be exercised with humility. Just because we are privy to insight does not give us the right to speak—this is where judgment kicks in. Proverbs tells us even a fool is considered discerning if he knows when to keep silent (Pro.17:28). If we exercise sagacity we must also be sensitive to avoid becoming critical. There is no profit to be gained in finding fault in others but there
